A good wedding photo shot list covers eight parts of the day: details, getting ready, the first look, the ceremony, family and wedding party photos, couple portraits, the reception and the send-off. Your photographer will cover the standard moments without being told. The shot list is for the things only you know: the heirloom, the people who matter, the surprise, the photo you want to recreate. Below is the complete list, moment by moment, the way I work through a wedding day, and a free printable version to fill in and send to your photographer.
I’m Korbin, the photographer and videographer behind KDH Weddings on the Gulf Coast. Every couple I work with gets a planning call where we go through a list like this one. Most of it I shoot on instinct. What I need from you is everything I can’t guess.
How to use a wedding shot list (and how not to)
- Do list the people, objects and moments that are personal to you. Your grandmother’s ring. The college roommates. Your dog.
- Do tell your photographer about surprises, special traditions and family dynamics ahead of time.
- Don’t hand over 200 Pinterest poses. A long list of set-ups means less time for the real moments, which are almost always the best photos.
- Don’t list what every photographer shoots anyway: the kiss, the rings, the first dance. They’re on the list below so you can see them, not so you have to ask.
1. Details (while you’re getting ready)
- Dress on a hanger, near a window
- Shoes, veil, jewelry and perfume
- Rings together, with the invitation suite
- Suit or tux details: cufflinks, watch, tie, boutonnière
- Bouquet and flowers
- Heirlooms (a grandmother’s ring, a locket, a handkerchief sewn into the dress)
- Vow books and letters

Tip: gather every detail into one box before I arrive. It saves 20 minutes of searching and gives you better detail photos.
2. Getting ready
- Hair and makeup finishing touches
- Bridal party in matching robes or outfits
- Getting into the dress: buttons, zip, a parent helping
- Shoes and jewelry going on
- Reading a letter from your partner
- The first time a parent sees you dressed
- Getting dressed: jacket on, cufflinks, tie
- Groomsmen together, and a moment with dad
- Solo portraits of each of you, fully dressed

3. First look (if you’re doing one)
- The walk up and the tap on the shoulder
- Both reactions, from two angles if there’s a second shooter
- The first hug
- Letters, gifts or private vows
- A first look or first touch with a parent

Not sure? Here’s first look or no first look.
4. Ceremony
- The venue and ceremony site before guests arrive
- Guests arriving and being seated
- Grandparents and parents walking in
- Wedding party walking in; flower girl and ring bearer
- The partner waiting at the front, watching the aisle
- The walk down the aisle, and the hand-off
- Vows, and the readings
- The ring exchange, up close
- Any unity ritual (sand, candle, handfasting, a cultural tradition)
- The first kiss
- The recessional, and the guests cheering
- The first moment alone right after

5. Family and wedding party photos
- Couple with each set of parents
- Couple with immediate families
- Couple with grandparents
- The full wedding party, formal and fun
- Each side of the wedding party
- The couple with each attendant

Family formals are the part of the day that runs over most. My wedding family photo list has the exact grouping order I use to get through them in about 20 minutes.
6. Couple portraits
- A classic full-length portrait
- Close-ups: hands, rings, the veil
- Walking together, candid
- A portrait with the venue, the beach or the city behind you
- Golden hour: 15 to 20 minutes around sunset
- Night portraits, with city lights or a starry beach

On the Gulf Coast, sunset runs from about 4:50 pm in December to about 7:53 pm in late June. I plan the whole timeline around it. See my wedding day timeline guide.
7. Reception
- The room before guests come in: tables, centerpieces, cake
- The grand entrance
- The first dance
- Parent dances
- Toasts, and the reactions to them
- Cutting the cake
- Bouquet and garter toss
- Guests dancing
- Table photos, if you want them
- Any special dedication or surprise performance

8. The send-off
- The tunnel of guests (sparklers, bubbles, petals)
- The car or carriage leaving
- A last look back
The personal list (the part that really matters)
This is the list I actually ask couples to send me. Five to fifteen lines is plenty:
- VIPs I might not know are VIPs: a godparent, a best friend from childhood, an aunt who raised you
- Anyone who can’t stand for long, or who needs to leave early
- Family situations I should know about (divorced parents, people who shouldn’t stand together)
- Heirlooms, special objects and cultural traditions
- Surprises: a song, a gift, a reveal
- One photo you’ve always wanted (recreating your parents’ wedding photo, for example)
- Anyone who’s passed away that you’re honoring, and how
How many hours do you need to get everything on the list?
- 3 hours: ceremony, family photos, couple portraits and the start of the reception. Best for small weddings and elopements.
- 6 hours: from the end of getting ready through the first dance and toasts. The most common choice.
- 9 hours: getting ready through the send-off, with nothing missed.

My packages are 3 hours ($1,500), 6 hours ($3,000) and 9 hours ($4,500), with a second shooter on 6 and 9 hours. The second shooter is what makes two getting-ready rooms and both reactions at the aisle possible. See pricing
FAQ: wedding photo shot lists
What is a typical shot list for a wedding?
It usually covers details, getting ready, the first look, the ceremony, family and wedding party photos, couple portraits, the reception and the send-off. Most of it your photographer shoots on instinct. The part you write is the personal list: the people, objects and moments only you know about.
What are the must-have wedding photos?
The walk down the aisle, the partner’s reaction, the ring exchange, the first kiss, family with each set of parents, a golden-hour portrait, the first dance, the toasts and the send-off.
Should I give my photographer a shot list?
Yes, but keep it short and personal. List your VIPs, heirlooms, traditions and surprises. Skip the standard shots. A good photographer already has those.
How long should a wedding shot list be?
For the personal part, 5 to 15 lines. The family photo list is separate, and it’s best kept to about 10 to 15 groupings.
What is the 30-5 rule for weddings?
There isn’t one official 30-5 rule. Wedding sites use the name for different timing rules of thumb. The idea behind all of them is the same: things take longer than you think, so pad the timeline. For photos, I plan about 2 to 3 minutes for each family grouping, plus 10 minutes for rounding people up.
How many photos do you get from a wedding?
It depends on the hours and the day. Longer days with two photographers produce more. What matters more than the number is that every important moment and person is there, which is what the shot list is for.
